Man gets involved in a war that he didn want anything to do with to begin with. Seeker vs Cherokee Nation and his friends

I am currently being attacked and ended up having to drain all not just of my resources from my alliance bank but my allies resources as well to fight against a man what knew he alone couldn't defeat me so he decided to bring his buddies in causing me to drain all my resources and have them wasted on a war that I wanted nothing with.

Context this man wanted me to merge with his alliance, and I gave him a no in my own words, I wanted nothing to do with him or his alliance I have not just my own people to attend to but the people under me as well, and so Cherokee Nation declared war on me realising that him fighting me alone wasn't enough brought his two friends into this war which caused me to subsequently having to drain all of my resources from my Alliance bank.

This man is a horrible fighter not unexpected of a new player.